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Sign In Don't have an account? Start a Wiki. If I Stay Read all about the book, the characters, and more here The Movie Find out new information about the upcoming movie premiere Gayle Forman Read about Gayle's life as an author and more here Mia Hall. Kat Hall. Denny Hall. What did you think of the If I Stay Movie? It was good but could have been better. It was horrible! They're thrilled with Adam, who, in some ways, has more in common with them than with their daughter — he even knows her dad's old band — and gently push the pair together. There's a Family Ties element to their relationship with Mia, who's more conservative than they are, though it all gets funneled into Mia's constant feelings of self-doubt.
And why is Mia so plagued with doubts? She's insecure about Adam liking her, though he makes his feelings blatantly clear — she worries that her hair long and loosely curled, even when she's comatose and her makeup always impeccable won't please him, she doesn't think she's good enough at the cello even though she gets so lost in practicing that she doesn't notice other people leaving the room , and she frets about fitting in with her family though they do nothing but support her. Everyone's dealt with insecurity, and it's an absolutely relatable feeling, but it's basically Mia's only personality trait — something she has in common with an unfortunate subgroup of YA protagonists who tend to be defined by a blurry lack of qualities rather than any definition.
Moretz is an uncommonly savvy young actress, and she's actually too much for the role of Mia sometimes, injecting more vividness into the passive character than seems to be in the source material, and making the movie's melodramatic elements more jarring. Her strengths are in cutting through the cutesiness and artificiality of stereotypes — so that when Mia and Adam spend the night together for the first time and she talks dirty to him in music terminology pizzicato!
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Here's the thing with If I Stay — it has a real story, in which Mia is forced to decide between Adam or Juilliard because, of course, he refuses to consider long distance. It's not an easy decision, but as her mom very sensibly points out, both scenarios have a lot to recommend them, even as they both mean giving something up.
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Then it throws in this insane larger dilemma in which Mia has to decide whether she wants to fight and live or give up and die — and, just to even things out, her grandfather Stacy Keach gives her permission to do the latter, saying he'll understand if she does. And, in form, I was better than him.
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For a while. Effectively speaking, I always was always going to be better at him in the technical arena. But he was better where it counted. When it came to the heart of the music, bringing a piece alive and making it beautiful - I was completely outclassed. I played like a robot and he played with his soul. This book makes me regret that more now than I've ever regretted it before in my life. If I Stay is a beautifully written, character-driven novel about a girl choosing between life and death.
It was also one of the best narrated audiobooks I have ever listened to. Mia's body is in ICU and she is waiting to die. As the events from her car crash unfold, she examines her relationships with everyone to determine whether or not it's worth staying or dying peacefully from her crash.
There were parts of this novel that had me weeping, my heart aching and my chest pounding with emotion. Mia's voice, her relationships, her struggles and her pain are so brilliantly related to the audience. The writing isn't perfect. There are some parts that could have been a little more polished. Some paragraphs that probably needed another edit. However, the technical writing aspects are far and above overcompensated by the heart and soul of this novel.
This novel is like Mia's Cello. It is beautiful, resounding and emotional. Just as Mia can play Adam like her instrument, so too can Forman play her audience - strumming all the high and low notes with perfect, breathtaking clarity. Without a doubt, Forman has it where it counts.
View all 21 comments. In a single moment, everything changes. Seventeen year- old Mia has no memory of the accident; she can only recall riding along the snow-wet Oregon road with her family. Then, in a blink, she finds herself watching as her own damaged body is taken from the wreck A sophisticated, layered, and heartachingly beautiful story about the power of family and friends, the choices we all make -and the ultimate choice Mia commands.
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I just thought it was completely useless. Not In a single moment, everything changes. And the plot didn't hold my attention -mainly because there wasn't much of a plot in first place. I was a little reluctant to admit I didn't like it in first place. Mainly because so many people loved it, I felt as if I was bursting their bubble.
But as time moves forward, a lot of people didn't like it either. So I'm not alone.
But before you completely screech at me for not liking such a "brilliant" book, I have my reasons. Sure, she likes music and it's supposed to "set her apart" from the rest of the world. It doesn't work like that. Just a girl wondering if she'd rather die or stay. Maybe for a lot of you, it's a wonderful plot. Not for me. Sorry, but recounting isn't my thing. This story is the wrong story which is being written. As a writer, I worship the rule, "If you have to add a lot of back-story to make your book understandable, then you're telling the wrong story.
This book is just memories stringed together. Maybe I'm the only one who has a problem with this, if so, forgive me.
But I really, really didn't like this. Oh and as for Adam, I didn't like him much either. He seemed the usual "dark" type. And one of the things I really hate in romance, is when I can't see why the boy and the girl fall for each other. I do understand they both have the passion for music, but so many other people do. My mind's not going to change. View all 52 comments. I was actually quite shocked to find that this book did not even make me shed one tear.
Weird, huh? Unless you count tears of boredom. Me : Wait where was the part where I was supposed to cry? I gave it two stars because it did not affect me in any way. Rather, it bored me. For one, I failed to empathize with a vast majority of the characters.